
Enjoy a more harmonious home: Discover Five Tools for Connection
Are you feeling overwhelmed by your child’s struggles?
Do you find yourself searching for effective ways to nurture a deeper connection with your children?
Would you like solutions for tantrums, boundary-pushing, and upsets that feels tailormade for you and your child?
– whatever is making parenting hard –
Get knowledge, Tools and support.
We all Need it!

You can have
Smoother and sweeter family time
Cooperative, confident and content children
Greater understanding of what is happening for your child, and yourself, when things are hard
Attachment-based tools that bring connection and healing for you and your child
Confidence that you are helping your family, not accidentally causing more difficulty
1:1 private sessions on your own schedule
Personalised help with your specific situation

I’m Katy Linsley,
I was searching for something to make family life sweeter. Then I was introduced to Hand in Hand I knew I had found something different!
Connection, and Hand in Hand’s tools and support were the missing pieces of the jigsaw for me – they transformed our lives.
I now bringing this much needed knowledge and support to others and I love it!
I offer personal consultations in two stages
#1 – Transform Your Family Dynamics with Compassionate Guidance
In our six-session series, you’ll embark on a journey that goes beyond quick fixes. Together, we’ll delve into the heart of your family’s challenges, exploring the underlying issues that may be affecting your child and showing up in hard to manage behaviours.
You will be supported every step of the way as you navigate the tricky and sticky moments in parenting, in a warm and safe space.
What to Expect:
- Comprehensive Learning: We’ll explore each of the five Hand in Hand tools, discovering the science behind them and how to apply them in your unique family situation.
- Personalized Support: Each 60-minute session is tailored to your needs, allowing time for discussion and questions, as well as One-Way Listening Time that helps you sort through conflicting thoughts and feelings and find the hope and motivation you need to make changes.
- Flexible Scheduling: Sessions can be arranged weekly, bi-weekly, or at your convenience – I know life gets extra busy as a parent.
I invite you to take the first step today:
Contact me for a free 30-minute introductory session to see how we can work together to foster a happier, more harmonious family environment.

“Katy’s support has been invaluable to navigate a very difficult time as a single parent of a very angry confused boy. Her unwavering trust in my parenting abilities and in my boy’s goodness, where others just saw failure and bad behaviour, helped us build our connection on much more solid foundations one tiny step at the time and overcome the worst moments I can remember. I cannot recommend Katy’s support enough; it has been a true game changer in my challenging parenting journey”
Alice, UK, Mum of 2
An example schedule for a 6-session consultation series

Free Introduction Session
30 Mins free, no obligation introductory session. Time to get to know each other a little, discuss what’s brought you here and whether this is the right place for you.

Session 1
Introduce the science of our emotions and what this means for your child, unpicking what might be going on for your child/ren. Introduce the Listening Partnerships Tool – a space to offload any emotional tension around your family situation

Session 2
Introduce the most relevant Tool for your family and your situation (Usually Staylistening or Special Time) how it works, when it might be used and discuss your questions or concerns. Plus listening time for you.

Session 3
Reflection on how experiments have gone, answer any questions you have. Introduction to the next Tool (usually Special Time or Staylistening), how it can be integrated. Finished with Listening time for you.

Session 4
Sharing of experiences of using the tools, clarification of how these experiments are impacting and healing family hurts. Introduction to next Tool, (usually Setting Limits) question and answer time, plus Listening time to allow space for you to experiment further.

Session 5
Feedback and discussion time. Introduction of final tool (usually Playlistening) and how it can be linked to whatever tricky behaviour or sticky family moment is relevant to your family. Listening time to shift any feelings that are arising for you within your parenting.

Session 6
Reflection on how the tools can be integrated more solidly within your family schedules and routines. Question and answer time, plus Listening Time to continue to resource you.
#2 – On-Going personalised Support
Have you Been through the intial Teaching the Tools series, or the Foundation Class?
I offer one-way Listening Time as well as personalised discussions about how you might use the tools in specific, particular situations and sticky patches.
Would you like to continue being supported, whilst you support your family?
I encourage you to book in for regular or ad hoc sessions.

“It would not be an exaggeration to say that Katy’s work with me has fundamentally changed our family life. Since learning about the work of Patty Wiplfer and Daniel Siegel, I had been searching for an emotionally informed parent coach for two years. I had tried many options but none had been quite what I was looking for. And then I found Katy! We have now been working together for 6 months and the change in my children, and my relationship with them is profound.”
Abi, mother of 2.